Friday, August 25, 2023

Life update~25th August 2023-Friday-

 Disclaimer: This post is entirely based on the writer's own respective views alone. 

Disclaimer  no. 2: Plus none of the images are mine and no, I don't own any of the actual images I had posted in this post alone.


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It's not authentically fun to see how one of my favorite player Allisha got a serious ankle injury as sadly I really think having an ankle injury is not a realistically fun type of experience ever since we all know that sure, so many great players may had gotten terrible ankle injuries but to be honest; I'd really don't think it is very fun to see anyone or anybody to have any type of injuries ever since this isn't something I do generally wish on any of the respective players with any of the particular teams based on what are the particular Basketball Leagues they are now playing in.


Plus speaking of life updates: I am going to take a very long break ever since I have been very busy with work lately and yet; it does feels very hard to authentically keep up with my blog ever since I have been working a lot lately and yet my mental health is also taking a very deep dip as well as you know I am now working at a very late hours plus I also now have to face the unpleasant consequences of the long traveling/ travelling distance between both my old home town Puchong New Village and the new location in Cyber Success and already I don't think it is very easy to authentically simply put up the balance between both work and balance ever since this isn't an actual topic which I did have the genuine interest in and yet; this isn't something I have been truthfully interested in however ever since I am usually (And genuinely plus generally as well) feeling deeply guilty for having to truthfully simply having to prioritize myself for having to choose to do the work all day every day and yes: I did truthfully felt very guilty for having to authentically put myself into work first instead of having to choose the time not only to properly take the time to fully rest up from work but to also take the time to go away and be away from work ever since you know that my family is one of those families where unfortunately; you do have to work intensely hard to make sure you not only can get the reward from all of the hard work you had done for not only for your very own hard work; but . . . dejectedly; if you did fail to do it so; unfortunately, you not only have to face the unpleasant consequences of not getting your reward but you are also facing a very severe punishment from not only from the people whom you only known them for a period of time when you are working with them except; to be honest: it also sadly applies to the people whom you had known them all too well and also; for a very long period of time like I would say for like a  . . . lifetime type of long period of time in your very own life not only as a family member but also as an extended family member to your very own relatives from both sides of the family as well and to be honest/ honestly, I would think this type of parenting is just . . . it is instantly exhausting to not only to let them know it is very important to only work hard to not only get both the fruits of labor and the rewards based on how you had worked so hard to make your way up and yet not giving the "proper room" to simply let them made a mistake where they can learn something from that type of experience and yet having to let them know it is all about both the success (only) and the part on where you do have to simply work so hard to make your way up and honestly; I am just feeling authentically, deeply and realistically infuriated and angry about how you not only have to tell them they (*Your very own children) to simply work so hard to not only make their way up to the top of the class and yet not knowing that they do made mistakes mostly for the reason that they either don't truthfully understand what are you truthfully saying towards them based on what are you exactly them or perhaps maybe you are telling them to let them know that they do need to listen to you once very carefully and yet having to truthfully yell at them by having to raise you very own voice towards them just to only let them to properly listen to you based on what are the words you are exactly saying based on what are talking about a current topic or an interest you are now currently talking with the other person (Or people if there are two or more people just as when we are talking about a "group" of people); perhaps may be you are trying to teach them something as either a parent; a teacher or even a professor plus I would say I would definitely add a coach into the mix (*It doesn't have to be a basketball coach in particular as it does applies too with dance, football; soccer (*Football in British English; Soccer in American English): surfing; swimming, any type of sports as sometimes when you are a coach towards either a group of players as your team or perhaps even a lone athlete as both an individual coach and a player or an athlete; it does feels deeply exhausting to not only experiencing all of the yelling from your own coach; your own family members; your own parents; siblings: cousins: aunts, uncles: relatives; bosses: teachers and everybody else in life whom they had yelled at you in general plus do you think yelling, screaming and shouting is going to truthfully/ truly and possibly is going to help out your students; your own children, your own best (And true) friends; the athletes whom you are working with either as an individual or a team when you are working in a team sports just as when you are yelling towards them out of nowhere and honestly? I really don't think this . . . type of method on yelling towards them is going to help them as you know I did have mentioned it before on *Twitter (*Or now known as 'X'--thanks Elon Musk. *Not amused facial expression*) on how Tanisha Wright isn't one of my favorite WNBA head coaches out of head coaches ever since she had been giving me a scary vibes which not only I instantly shut down out of nowhere so immediately to the point where I did felt as if I either didn't listen to the other person based on what are they saying or what are they talking about and to be honest: I even felt as if I did lost all of the "true" amount of endless strength; motivation and all of the "true" interests I did would usually have in my very own life and honestly I would say "Yelling isn't going to authentically and truthfully/ authentically/ realistically helping the growth and the progress of the other person/ the people as usually it does leads to either to quitting their "Actual" jobs; quitting the team: losing the "true" interests based on what do they usually enjoyed doing in their very own life yet having to experience the loss of motivation and the loss of joy based on what exactly are the going through in their very own life and yet; if this is in a league where it is either something has to do with the NCAA, NBA: WNBA and any type of league; honestly; this does honestly immediately lead  them to an immediate disappearance of how they already had enough with the amount of the experience based on what exactly are they going through in their very own life and yelling at them is going to truthfully help with both their process of both their growth and their development??? That's not going to truthfully going to help them at all especially it does lead to an immediate transfer (For colleague sports); quitting the "true" interest where they used to have; asking for a "trade" and perhaps wanting to "permanently" retire from the interest altogether plus when it comes to the situation very similar to the ones in many of the toxic families; if you ever think yelling at your very own children is going to truthfully help them to grow--I don't truthfully think so--I don't think it is going to help them to let them go any further in their very own life and yet having the "very little" level of patience to definitely no level of patience isn't going to help them at all ever since I really don't think this is going to authentically help them at all ever since it is going to hurt them even more than you actually think not to mention this does lead to a deep and an estranged relationship where they had decided to make a "permanent" plus a "full-on" choice to not only end the ties and truthfully cut all of the ties with you to not only preventing you from having to give them any further towards them based on how you had treated them very badly not to mention this is going to authentically make you look more like an 'Actual' villain of the family members and to be honest; I don't think this is going to make you look any better either as well.


Anyway, here are the images I am going to post them here to let Allisha know she is going to truthfully get well soon as I do want to wish her although this post does feels like a very long and lengthy post I did on my life update though.