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And speaking of my parents: this is also one of the reasons why I have been feeling very stressed lately because of how they wanted to help me out while having to adapt to a brand new environment ever since they felt as when I choose a brand new environment; it does felt very different to the old environment where they truly enjoyed the old environment (I am talking about an area called Puchong where it is our old environment and our home is located there) and yet they did have a business there however when they are moving there; I am expecting that they are only moving in next year of the year 2023 except they decided to move there a couple of days just before my father's birthday which falls on November 25th as it is the day of Thanksgiving celebration in the USA and Canada especially I am now thinking "Could the plan of moving are the news from my parents?" Especially my mother is a person who thinks birthdays are the events where you need to truly remember and yet having to celebrated by many as well as making every memories of anyone's birthday to be counted.
However . . . for me; after the celebration of my father's birthday at the new home; this really changed me a lot additionally this makes me want to keep my distant from my parents from that day onwards additionally I am no longer thinking of having to celebrate anyone's birthday especially when it comes to the people who did drain all of your energy more so than having to replenish your energy and giving the full-on; authentic and endless support that you can truly get from anyone or anybody that is outside of your very own social circle.
Also, if that wasn't enough; the move is also feeling very stressful as well to be honest plus I am feeling truly very disappointed with how my parents are keeping so many secrets from me additionally they didn't truly understand about my mental health and yet I did remember how I am extremely aware about their behavior as well especially when they are doing the actions that does makes you are feeling truly very uneasy especially when we are talking about how they are overstepping their boundaries as the other person (It can be anyone specifically; not just family members: it could be friends; the people whom you have in your social life.) had placed their boundaries. Nevertheless; when they cross that boundaries; that is something you normally have to be aware about especially when you have a relationship without any different boundaries at all.
Plus this is what I am truly going through in my very own life; watching and observing how the relationship between both of my parents have little to no boundaries and yet they have decided to continue this type of pattern into our lives.
Plus although people may confused about how boundaries are an action of having to push your loved ones away; in reality: boundaries are an action of having to give you (Or your loved ones) the space, the privacy and the time of having to recover your energy as well as your well-being.
Unfortunately my parents may not truly understand about how boundaries are very important in many relationship and yet they have to recover their well-being and having the privacy; the space and the precious time to simply take really good care of themselves yet having to re-fill their energy level mentally, physically; emotionally and spiritually as well as thoughtfully.
